Application denied!

I have reviewed your offer and the attached job description, and after careful consideration, I regret to inform you that I will not be accepting the position of “Gay Friend.” It was tempting at first, mostly because the alternatives seemed so lonely. And I’ll be honest, you almost won me over with the promise of [...]

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Loving you shouldn’t hurt

Loving someone means you accept their apologies — but only when those apologies are meaningful. Loving someone means you accept their flaws, their quirks, and their baggage — but only when those qualities are harmless. Loving someone means you stick around and fight for the relationship instead of running away — but only when the [...]

That oh so heavy sleeve

Every time you get your heart broken, it becomes more and more tempting to change your ways. To stop caring. To stop trying. But you have managed to push through your abandonment fears. You have summoned the strength to keep thinking positive, to keep loving loudly.

The evil of coming out and dragging everyone with you …

She said she refused to change her life for me since I wouldn’t for her, she had hopes and plans that I would get married give her grandchildren and I ruined that. And she didn’t want to talk about it anymore and that was the last time we talked about her being in the closet… I told her I wouldn’t write about this, I lied :-)

Guys On Grindr

  Every gay black man’s dream. I couldn’t possibly refuse….I packed a weekend bag💼🏃🏿 Tired lines….🙄 Reading is fundamental😏 When all else fails, throw money at it….. This one said he was an “Oral top” and I wanted to know what that meant: Or the picture collector ....  

SIX WAYS TO SURVIVE A BREAK-UP

Negotiating a break-up is never easy, I think that’s something I’m sure we can all agree on. But there’s no rule saying we have to be a prize-winning douche bag to extricate ourselves from a formerly well-functioning relationship. So how does one avoid these well-trodden paths of douche-bagish behavior?   Well, I’m glad you asked. Here [...]