Why aren’t we having sex like we use to?

  Does your relationship have to end up sexless? No! Not if you don’t want it to. But like most things, sustaining a healthy sexual relationship takes work. Let’s look at some of the reasons gay men stop having sex and what some possible solutions are. Couples stop having sex for different reasons. The reasons …

Tea and Time….

There are times where I sit at my computer or before a blank piece of paper to write something and nothing happens. My mind draws a blank. I come up empty. After a half hour of letting my mind wander from here to nowhere, I give up and return to doing what I was before. When …

Insta-asshole

I recently returned to Instagram. The world of social media just got bigger. Now I have websites inviting me to look at the perfectly photographed lives of everyone I’ve emailed in the last century. Awesome </sarcasm>. Thank you, Instagram, for reintroducing me to my favorite ex-boyfriend, his gorgeous new boyfriend, and their impossibly cute new …

Defending my gayness….or na?

I entered the Toyota Camry a confident gay man; I exited it a confidant man still, but one whose gayness had been put to the test. “There are lots of things to do in Chicago,” my Uber driver said. “A lot of places. A lot of cultures. A lot of girls.” I forced a smile …

We’re ALL  A Little #HurtBae

We’ve all seen the heart-wrenching video of an ex-girlfriend talking to her cheating ex-boyfriend courtesy of The Scene. The internet world moves fast so as a refresher; the girl confronts the cheating ex-dude and it gets emotional (on her part). She cries as she reflects on their tragic time together as ole boi is chilling seemingly …