Im good being single, for now.

Honestly, it’s because I was emotionally unstable otherwise.  I was so desperate for a boyfriend that I was vulnerable and interpreted anything as flirting.  There was one particular guy that I really really liked, who I thought had feelings for me as well. We texted throughout the day every single day for a little bit, [...]

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Application denied!

I have reviewed your offer and the attached job description, and after careful consideration, I regret to inform you that I will not be accepting the position of “Gay Friend.” It was tempting at first, mostly because the alternatives seemed so lonely. And I’ll be honest, you almost won me over with the promise of [...]

Loving you shouldn’t hurt

Loving someone means you accept their apologies — but only when those apologies are meaningful. Loving someone means you accept their flaws, their quirks, and their baggage — but only when those qualities are harmless. Loving someone means you stick around and fight for the relationship instead of running away — but only when the [...]

That oh so heavy sleeve

Every time you get your heart broken, it becomes more and more tempting to change your ways. To stop caring. To stop trying. But you have managed to push through your abandonment fears. You have summoned the strength to keep thinking positive, to keep loving loudly.

An Oh-So Tired Christian

Dear Offended Christian, I’m terribly sorry that your feelings are hurt again. I feel bad about that. None of us likes to be criticized, so I totally get it. I know I’ve said some pretty hard words to you recently, and maybe I’ve been somewhat less than “cheery” in my delivery, but that happens when you’re tired. And I am really tired: [...]

I don’t want a man until I can mentally afford him.

The most important relationship we will ever have in our life is with our own self. The most important relationship we have in our lives is with ourselves. And even though we are the only ones who are present at every moment of our lives–from birth onward–this relationship can be the most difficult one to [...]

DAD KILLS 14-YEAR-OLD TEEN: ‘HE WOULD RATHER HAVE A DEAD SON THAT A GAY SON’

A father shot his 14-year-old gay son, with police attributing the murder in part to the boy’s sexual orientation. Henderson police in Nevada say 53-year-old Wendell Melton shot and killed his son Giovanni in the morning of Thursday 2 November. Sonja Jones is Giovanni’s former foster mom and said Wendell always had a thing against his [...]