Application denied!

I have reviewed your offer and the attached job description, and after careful consideration, I regret to inform you that I will not be accepting the position of “Gay Friend.” It was tempting at first, mostly because the alternatives seemed so lonely. And I’ll be honest, you almost won me over with the promise of [...]

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Loving you shouldn’t hurt

Loving someone means you accept their apologies — but only when those apologies are meaningful. Loving someone means you accept their flaws, their quirks, and their baggage — but only when those qualities are harmless. Loving someone means you stick around and fight for the relationship instead of running away — but only when the [...]

An Oh-So Tired Christian

Dear Offended Christian, I’m terribly sorry that your feelings are hurt again. I feel bad about that. None of us likes to be criticized, so I totally get it. I know I’ve said some pretty hard words to you recently, and maybe I’ve been somewhat less than “cheery” in my delivery, but that happens when you’re tired. And I am really tired: [...]

Wow What A Asshole….

As I began to write this in my head I thought "wow you're really an asshole." I have spent quite a bit of time trying to be single. Any guy that came my way worth dating I immediately turned away.  And then there has been a few that I have been seeing but have made a concerted effort [...]

BODY OF DUTCH TEENAGE WHO WENT MISSING ON GRINDR DATE FOUND IN LAKE

The body of a 17-year-old gay teen has been found in a lake, following his disappearance after a Grindr date. On 17 February, Orlando Boldewijn, from Rotterdam, Netherlands, reportedly used the gay dating app to meet someone, reports NL Times. His body was discovered around 10.15am local time (9.15am GMT) on Monday 26 February, after he was [...]

DAD KILLS 14-YEAR-OLD TEEN: ‘HE WOULD RATHER HAVE A DEAD SON THAT A GAY SON’

A father shot his 14-year-old gay son, with police attributing the murder in part to the boy’s sexual orientation. Henderson police in Nevada say 53-year-old Wendell Melton shot and killed his son Giovanni in the morning of Thursday 2 November. Sonja Jones is Giovanni’s former foster mom and said Wendell always had a thing against his [...]

Signs You’ve Hit Rock Bottom In Your Single Life

Hitting rock bottom is never a bad thing because it means you’re on your way back up to brighter things — but when you’re a gay man who’s single AF, the process is daunting and occasionally even hilarious. It’s not just about bad dates and spending important events and holidays alone, either; hitting rock bottom in your [...]