You want my BBC? That’s so racist!

As a black gay man, I am constantly reduced to, racist stereotypes when online dating It’s hard to believe that not so long ago there was a stigma attached to using dating apps. Now, they are completely normalised among young people and can be a great tool to use in meeting potential romantic partners. But [...]


Sorry, but I’m not used to this……

I’m used to loneliness. I’m used to disappointment, sadness, and indifference. I have mastered the silent art of feeling sorry for myself. I’m used to the belief that I am unlovable and that I will remain unloveable. And that’s fine. I’ve learned to accept my unlikability. The concept of being loved, taken care of, and [...]

Tea and Time….

There are times where I sit at my computer or before a blank piece of paper to write something and nothing happens. My mind draws a blank. I come up empty. After a half hour of letting my mind wander from here to nowhere, I give up and return to doing what I was before. When [...]

Adolph Hitler was an amazing award-winning soldier

From 1914 – 1918, Adolph Hitler was an amazing award-winning soldier in the German military. Later as President, he developed one of the most effective anti-smoking campaigns in the world. Under his rule, Germany revolutionized the jet engine. But, you know, and I know, that those facts don’t mean a damn thing. He was a [...]