Im good being single, for now.

Honestly, it’s because I was emotionally unstable otherwise.  I was so desperate for a boyfriend that I was vulnerable and interpreted anything as flirting.  There was one particular guy that I really really liked, who I thought had feelings for me as well. We texted throughout the day every single day for a little bit, [...]

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Trans, Deaf Artist Cast in DC Comics’ Titans

There may not be a lot of diversity in today’s current crop of superhero movies, whether in front or behind the camera, but thankfully it is a different story when it comes to television. In yet another meaningful stride when it comes to representation, the DC Universe show Titans has cast a deaf trans artist for its upcoming second season.

Loving you shouldn’t hurt

Loving someone means you accept their apologies — but only when those apologies are meaningful. Loving someone means you accept their flaws, their quirks, and their baggage — but only when those qualities are harmless. Loving someone means you stick around and fight for the relationship instead of running away — but only when the [...]

That oh so heavy sleeve

Every time you get your heart broken, it becomes more and more tempting to change your ways. To stop caring. To stop trying. But you have managed to push through your abandonment fears. You have summoned the strength to keep thinking positive, to keep loving loudly.

The evil of coming out and dragging everyone with you …

She said she refused to change her life for me since I wouldn’t for her, she had hopes and plans that I would get married give her grandchildren and I ruined that. And she didn’t want to talk about it anymore and that was the last time we talked about her being in the closet… I told her I wouldn’t write about this, I lied :-)

Dear White People Delightful Dive Into Gay Culture

Dear white people season 2 perfectly explores racism in the gay dating scene Whites only. Into chocolate. Chubby chasers. Rice queens. If you’re gay and not exactly the European standard of beauty, chances are you’ve seen one or more of these phrases on dating apps and floating around in the real world. Netflix original series Dear White People isn’t [...]

An Oh-So Tired Christian

Dear Offended Christian, I’m terribly sorry that your feelings are hurt again. I feel bad about that. None of us likes to be criticized, so I totally get it. I know I’ve said some pretty hard words to you recently, and maybe I’ve been somewhat less than “cheery” in my delivery, but that happens when you’re tired. And I am really tired: [...]