Dear White People Delightful Dive Into Gay Culture

Dear white people season 2 perfectly explores racism in the gay dating scene Whites only. Into chocolate. Chubby chasers. Rice queens. If you’re gay and not exactly the European standard of beauty, chances are you’ve seen one or more of these phrases on dating apps and floating around in the real world. Netflix original series Dear White People isn’t …

Wow What A Asshole….

As I began to write this in my head I thought “wow you’re really an asshole.” I have spent quite a bit of time trying to be single. Any guy that came my way worth dating I immediately turned away.  And then there has been a few that I have been seeing but have made a concerted effort …

Signs You’ve Hit Rock Bottom In Your Single Life

Hitting rock bottom is never a bad thing because it means you’re on your way back up to brighter things — but when you’re a gay man who’s single AF, the process is daunting and occasionally even hilarious. It’s not just about bad dates and spending important events and holidays alone, either; hitting rock bottom in your …

I’m Bitroverted – I Go Both Ways

If you’re like me, you’re an ex-introvert. You can be outgoing, yet you desperately need your alone time. You can’t do that. You’re one or the other. No, this is how I am. And that’s how many other people are. But we’re often misunderstood. Take for instance, people often see me as completely, inarguably, extroverted because …

Unprepared

The day I decided to let myself love you, I prepared myself for the unraveling. I had tried love before, and I’d lost it, because I’d been too afraid to show up. I’d been too afraid to stand, walls and weapons down, and let myself be seen. With you, I resolved to pull at those …

We’re ALL  A Little #HurtBae

We’ve all seen the heart-wrenching video of an ex-girlfriend talking to her cheating ex-boyfriend courtesy of The Scene. The internet world moves fast so as a refresher; the girl confronts the cheating ex-dude and it gets emotional (on her part). She cries as she reflects on their tragic time together as ole boi is chilling seemingly …