Your Three True Loves

There’s an old saying that each person falls in love three times throughout their lifetime, and although this might seem like an old wive’s tale (or an old husband’s tale!), when you scrutinize the details of the ancient notion it really doesn’t seem so impossible. Please read the specifics below and decide for yourself. #1: …

An Oh-So Tired Christian

Dear Offended Christian, I’m terribly sorry that your feelings are hurt again. I feel bad about that. None of us likes to be criticized, so I totally get it. I know I’ve said some pretty hard words to you recently, and maybe I’ve been somewhat less than “cheery” in my delivery, but that happens when you’re tired. And I am really tired: …

I don’t want a man until I can mentally afford him.

The most important relationship we will ever have in our life is with our own self. The most important relationship we have in our lives is with ourselves. And even though we are the only ones who are present at every moment of our lives–from birth onward–this relationship can be the most difficult one to …

Signs You’ve Hit Rock Bottom In Your Single Life

Hitting rock bottom is never a bad thing because it means you’re on your way back up to brighter things — but when you’re a gay man who’s single AF, the process is daunting and occasionally even hilarious. It’s not just about bad dates and spending important events and holidays alone, either; hitting rock bottom in your …

Should I call him DADDY?

There are different types of couples everywhere—some call each other “bae,” some call each other “honey” and “baby,” and some men call their boyfriends “daddy.” Yes, it’s a thing. Some men actually call their boyfriends “daddy” during sex, but it doesn’t mean they have daddy issues or want to have sex with their father. Sex …

Why aren’t we having sex like we use to?

  Does your relationship have to end up sexless? No! Not if you don’t want it to. But like most things, sustaining a healthy sexual relationship takes work. Let’s look at some of the reasons gay men stop having sex and what some possible solutions are. Couples stop having sex for different reasons. The reasons …