Healing yourself is rough but necessary

    Heartbreak is powerful. I didn’t know how powerful it was until I actually gave the entirety of my heart to someone several months ago and in the process getting severely depressed over it. Everyone has told me to get over him, move on. If heartbreak ever allowed it to be THAT simple. Someone, [...]

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Dear White People Delightful Dive Into Gay Culture

Dear white people season 2 perfectly explores racism in the gay dating scene Whites only. Into chocolate. Chubby chasers. Rice queens. If you’re gay and not exactly the European standard of beauty, chances are you’ve seen one or more of these phrases on dating apps and floating around in the real world. Netflix original series Dear White People isn’t [...]

Just Walk Away Already

There comes a moment in life where you realize that the person you thought was larger than life was really just reckless… not brave. You thought they lived life. Really lived. Bold. Free. Unafraid. You know, unlike you. Now you realize that this was a lie you told yourself. You are the strong one. You [...]

Signs You’ve Hit Rock Bottom In Your Single Life

Hitting rock bottom is never a bad thing because it means you’re on your way back up to brighter things — but when you’re a gay man who’s single AF, the process is daunting and occasionally even hilarious. It’s not just about bad dates and spending important events and holidays alone, either; hitting rock bottom in your [...]

He’s Paradisiacal

  So there’s this guy named ummmm D.. He’s from LA and works for ummmm . He’s a bit different from the guys around here. He’s very analytical about things that I do… the typical guy who can only cook eggs and all that stuff. He constantly texts me and openly analyses things he observes about me. [...]

Michael. Thanks but, No Thanks?

Yesterday, I received a text from an unknown sender. It turns out to be this guy from a guy I haven’t been in contact with in years ago. After all this time he still has the biggest crush on me. Everything at work was going smoothly and well. Receiving a text from him made my [...]

Should I call him DADDY?

There are different types of couples everywhere—some call each other “bae,” some call each other “honey” and “baby,” and some men call their boyfriends “daddy.” Yes, it's a thing. Some men actually call their boyfriends “daddy” during sex, but it doesn't mean they have daddy issues or want to have sex with their father. Sex [...]