The evil of coming out and dragging everyone with you …

She said she refused to change her life for me since I wouldn’t for her, she had hopes and plans that I would get married give her grandchildren and I ruined that. And she didn’t want to talk about it anymore and that was the last time we talked about her being in the closet… I told her I wouldn’t write about this, I lied :-)

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Been lost … Still not found …

Its been way too long since I have spilled my guts … Other than working my butt off I have been busy courting this guy. Its been a mess, once again he looks great on paper and I really like him it's just that after a few dates things just seem to be going south [...]

Unprepared

The day I decided to let myself love you, I prepared myself for the unraveling. I had tried love before, and I’d lost it, because I’d been too afraid to show up. I’d been too afraid to stand, walls and weapons down, and let myself be seen. With you, I resolved to pull at those [...]

We’re ALL  A Little #HurtBae

We’ve all seen the heart-wrenching video of an ex-girlfriend talking to her cheating ex-boyfriend courtesy of The Scene. The internet world moves fast so as a refresher; the girl confronts the cheating ex-dude and it gets emotional (on her part). She cries as she reflects on their tragic time together as ole boi is chilling seemingly [...]

Stop using the word F*****

  Stop using the word F***** via I Hate That Word… — LADYHOOD   I read a post that completely disturbed me… I was and still am so disappointed that someone could be so simple-minded, belittling, and ignorant. This post, “I will not apologize to faggots” (Oh, how I hate that word, which is why I [...]

Oh i judge…And can’t figure out if I’m proud of it or not.

Often times we are told not to judge in a billion different ways …Don't judge unless ye be judged, Don't judge a book by its cover.Blah Blah Blah… But we do anyhow, come on you know you do. Look at her hair, it is a hot mess… He is too good looking to be with [...]

I am alright

ALRIGHT adverb:  1. in a satisfactory manner or to a satisfactory extent; fairly well. I am alright , not ok nor doing well ... But alright, And I am so good with that… I haven’t always been alright. There were times in my life where I thought the world was caving in on me. Being [...]