Your Three True Loves

There’s an old saying that each person falls in love three times throughout their lifetime, and although this might seem like an old wive’s tale (or an old husband’s tale!), when you scrutinize the details of the ancient notion it really doesn’t seem so impossible. Please read the specifics below and decide for yourself. #1: …

An Oh-So Tired Christian

Dear Offended Christian, I’m terribly sorry that your feelings are hurt again. I feel bad about that. None of us likes to be criticized, so I totally get it. I know I’ve said some pretty hard words to you recently, and maybe I’ve been somewhat less than “cheery” in my delivery, but that happens when you’re tired. And I am really tired: …

I don’t want a man until I can mentally afford him.

The most important relationship we will ever have in our life is with our own self. The most important relationship we have in our lives is with ourselves. And even though we are the only ones who are present at every moment of our lives–from birth onward–this relationship can be the most difficult one to …

Wow What A Asshole….

As I began to write this in my head I thought “wow you’re really an asshole.” I have spent quite a bit of time trying to be single. Any guy that came my way worth dating I immediately turned away.  And then there has been a few that I have been seeing but have made a concerted effort …

Just Walk Away Already

There comes a moment in life where you realize that the person you thought was larger than life was really just reckless… not brave. You thought they lived life. Really lived. Bold. Free. Unafraid. You know, unlike you. Now you realize that this was a lie you told yourself. You are the strong one. You …