Should I call him DADDY?

There are different types of couples everywhere—some call each other “bae,” some call each other “honey” and “baby,” and some men call their boyfriends “daddy.” Yes, it's a thing. Some men actually call their boyfriends “daddy” during sex, but it doesn't mean they have daddy issues or want to have sex with their father. Sex... Continue Reading →

Many reasons NOT to forgive….

I readily admit that there is a moral imperative to forgive; it is clear that forgiveness can be a powerful force of healing and reconciliation. However, I must speak out when the advice from blogs, articles, books, and spiritual one-liners treats forgiveness as a panacea for hurt, pain, and “moving on” to a happier life—with nary a thought given to... Continue Reading →

Love a softy

Love a soft person. The kind whose heart breaks over puppies and injured children. Someone who cries over sad endings to movies and feels deep joy over happy ones. Someone who kisses your soul instead of your heart because they know that your soul is where you keep your universe and your heart is just... Continue Reading →


I recently returned to Instagram. The world of social media just got bigger. Now I have websites inviting me to look at the perfectly photographed lives of everyone I’ve emailed in the last century. Awesome </sarcasm>. Thank you, Instagram, for reintroducing me to my favorite ex-boyfriend, his gorgeous new boyfriend, and their impossibly cute new... Continue Reading →


The day I decided to let myself love you, I prepared myself for the unraveling. I had tried love before, and I’d lost it, because I’d been too afraid to show up. I’d been too afraid to stand, walls and weapons down, and let myself be seen. With you, I resolved to pull at those... Continue Reading →

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